"While I never forget that I am my children's mother and my husband's wife, I know that I must always remain connected to me, to who I am as a woman."

Kathryn Sansone has captured national attention for her heartwarming and hands-on approach to managing motherhood and life. She has been interviewed for Inside Edition and magazines such as Parents, Fit Pregnancy, and Child, and been honored as Chief Everything Officer by America Online. Kathryn lives in St. Louis with her husband, Jim, and their ten children, ranging in age from one to nineteen years.

Happily married and the mother of ten, Kathryn Sansone is centered, fit, organized, and beautiful. But Supermom? Absolutely not. Welcome to her club.

"My life does not always go smoothly, and how can it when ten children guarantee constant change? But that's the point -- by keeping my roles in balance, I remain at peace and am more able to cope with everyday inevitable stresses," she says.

It's no wonder national television shows and magazines have featured Kathryn and that women continually ask her for advice on how she balances her roles as woman, wife, and mother. In this book she translates her everyday experience and strategies into simple yet life-changing tips that you can use.

Kathryn helps you:
  º Understand the importance of taking care of yourself so that you can better care for your marriage and family
  º Battle everyday stresses with her real-life wisdom, insight, and confidence-building advice
  º Strengthen body, mind, and spirit to achieve emotional balance

Along the way, Kathryn uses her signature warmth, understanding, and light humor to reach out to you and help you learn from her own real-life experiences.

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From Marina: I have four children and I'm worried about college. We've been trying to save for this but with the day-to-day expenses, it's hard even though we try to be frugal. Do you have any tips to share on budgeting and finances with a large family?

Kathryn's response: I am not a finance expert, however, here are some budgeting and finance tips my family have tried with our large crew. Check out the 529 program in your state for a tax deduction. Have your children take as many AP coursed in high school to earn college credit which means less time in college. Check out low-cost schools - public schools. Apply for as many scholarships as you can. My children also work and put away for college themselves.

From Gaye: Hello Kathryn. I'm a single mother of two kids, a boy aged 10 and a little girl who's 5. My son has ADHD and bipolar, and whilst being immensely precious to me is quite a handful. My daughter is full of beans and sometimes exhausting to keep up with! I find that I get quite run-down at times, perhaps you could even say burnt out. What tips do you have to help me cope better and feel better about myself? Thank you so much!

Kathryn's response: Gaye, it is a necessity to take care of yourself! Guilt-free . . . take time each and every day to work-out, spend a few minutes in prayer or silence . . . All of us women have a hard time finding the balance between our woman and mother roles. Similar to the oxygen mask theory, you must put the mask on yourself FIRST and then assist your child. Keep your cup full; you cannot give what you do not have! By taking care of yourself, your children can benefit from a happier, healthier you! Close the door and give yourself a break-guilt free, especially when your children can be more of a challenge.

From Amy: What are your best tips for keeping up with housework!? I have the worst time and I only have 2 kids!

Kathryn's response: Housework? I keep up with housework every day. After each meal, it's important to have the kids pitch in with their chores. . . one wipes down counters and vaccuums and the other clear the dishes and takes out the trash. Do not wait for tomorrow to do "chores." They should be kept up each day . . . laundry, picking up after each other etc. It is overwhelming if you have "chore days" instead of just keeping and picking up as you go along. I will stay up late to make sure I am ready for the next day and then sleep that extra minute in the morning.

From Joely: I have 6 children and my biggest challenge is making time for my husband. When he comes home, we're busy getting dinner ready, bathing kids, helping with homework, and the whole bedtime ritual. By that time, we're both exhausted. We spend the weekends on household chores. My children aren't old enough to be left alone and we don't have the luxury of babysitters. Can you share how you and your husband have managed to make time for each other?

Kathryn's response: With 6 kids, how old is the oldest to watch the other children? My husband and I go out for a cup of coffee for 20 minutes to catch up and communicate. It does not have to be extravagant . . . in the evening after bath and dinner, can you escape for an ice cream and let the oldest watch the others since all the work has been completed? Again, how old is the oldest . . . that was the beauty of having so many children . . . someone had to get older. If not, hire a babysitter once a week or once every two weeks so you know that you have a date with your husband because it is important to nurture that primary relationship. Plus it makes the children feel secure knowing that mom and dad love each other and want to spend time together.