~ Coincidence Much?
I remember being really struck by a particular book when I was in my teens.
Sure, there was Shakespeare and George Orwell and Harper Lee, but one of the most memorable was a bizarre little paperback with a light blue cover all about coincidence.
It was a dog-eared collection of anecdotes from around the world about the unexplained phenomenon. Some called it fate, the book's intro said, others thought it more mystical than that, but the stories of coincidence it contained proved that whatever it was, it was real and quite jaw-dropping.
I think I found it for 50 cents in a second-hand shop somewhere random. The ominous lightning strike on its cover appealed to my teenaged mind. Back then, I probably thought it was edgy and hoped mum would think I was into the occult.
There were all sorts of stories of a long-lost family heirloom that is suddenly found after a relative's favourite flower grows in the exact spot where it's buried; or the twin feeling the other twin's pain at the same moment, on the other side of the world; or of certain meaningful things happening on key dates, centuries later, auspicious and freaky.
In the years since, I do pay particular attention to those moments that happen in life . . . like someone popping into your thoughts minutes before they ring you on the phone, dreaming about something a few days before it happens and things like that.
With this pregnancy - see, there is a link in here somewhere - I know how real coincidence is in my life, but I am not sure of its meaning. Or even if it has one.
By some random eventuality, the embryo that is now the baby I am carrying was implanted in me on the very same date as our little boy's was in Tracey, four years ago. There is no way we could have orchestrated that with cycles and doctor's visits and hospital theatre schedules and chance.
I am due on my partner's birthday.
Over the weekend, we realised another freaky coincidence.
Our 18-week scan - the one we are counting down to so desperately - is on September 22. They day we lost our baby last year.
Tracey said to me "Do you think it's trying to tell us something, that everything will be ok this time?"
Bloody hell, I hope so!